Is Internet the place to meet a significant other?

[winstonsam]

I've been on various paid and free dating sites for over a year after a break up with one woman for over three years. I've gone out on a quite a number (30+) dates. Sometimes, up to several times with one I've met on the Internet. I am not quick for the sack because I seek that common denominator of friendship and mutual values first before intimacy. This should be obvious in my profile.

I see so many of the same people on all sites for a long time, over a year. Why?

While considering abandoning the Internet to find a monogamous significant other, I am curious about other's experiences with respect to my question: What's your experience with Internet dating?

ONLY CONSTRUCTIVE RESPONSES PLEASE. I don't give credibility to obviously insulting replies.

[cyberfren]

believe they haven;t meet their mr right or cinderella gua... and normally husband&wife r from BF/GF, which r come from close friend/long relationship... can't b BF/GF in 1 day, and husband&wife in 2nd day, right?

[martine4161]

It can be if the person from the opposite side is genuine and behaving truly with you. I can say yes if the person is trustful. But how would we know that in the Internet chatting or on-line dating. If you want to make future with that person then you have proper true knowledge about that person. Nothing is trustful on the Internet.

[johnblack]

No this a not a possible,how you know your opposite person that loyal or a be fact with you ,how you know him and you just trust what he/she say ,online chatting is a just a time-pass or for a friend this a better but not choose a partner through Internet.